WONDERING [Where they are]

Why You Can’t Find a “Good Man” (And What to Do About It)

Everyone says good men don’t exist—but hoe_math shows why they do, and why you might be pushing them away. From the infamous “bird hands” gesture to the hidden attitudes that quietly repel people, this video exposes the subtle ways entitlement sabotages relationships.The twist? Finding a good partner isn’t just about searching harder—it’s about holding yourself accountable. If you want loyalty, attraction, and respect, you need to embody those traits first.hoe_math breaks it down: stop the self-sabotage, start the self-reflection, and the good men stop being invisible.

0|21|Question|Are Good Straight Men Real?|The speaker questions the existence of good straight men, humorously suggesting that they exist but often avoid certain women due to negative behaviors.  
21|66|Behavior|Bird Hands and Attitude|A specific gesture, "bird hands," is described as a sign of entitlement and being loud when wrong, which is portrayed as unattractive and off-putting to men.  
66|116|Reflection|Self-Reflection and Desirability|The speaker encourages women to consider how their actions and attitudes might affect their desirability to good men, highlighting the importance of self-awareness.  
116|166|Advice|Improvement and Mutual Effort|It is suggested that attracting a good partner requires being a good partner oneself, including adopting positive habits, choices, and beliefs, and avoiding entitled behaviors.

0 Genuinely wondering, are there any good straight men? Like, do they exist? 4 There are, yeah, but they're running away from you. They can see you coming. 9 They know what this means—these are bird hands. They look like a beak, and you make little pecking motions with them. 14 Sometimes you open and close them for emphasis. 21 Bird hands are what snotty, entitled women do when they're wrong and plan to be loud about it. 26 Look, I don't consider myself much of a catch—at least not anymore. I think I expired a long time ago. 33 But even I would not put up with this. 37 You're looking for good straight men, but even the second-rate straight men are running. 42 Take a look at yourself. I know it's hard, but imagine you're a good straight man and you come home from work to a bunch of this. 49 Imagine you share your feelings with your fiancée and she gives you this face—this "what the hell am I supposed to do with that?" face. 58 Imagine you're having an argument and she flashes you one of these—this "how could you be so wrong?" look. 68 Look at your face. Look at yourself. Do you like you right now? Do you think I like you right now? I don't. 79 And if I don't like you, why would the good ones like you? 84 A lot of women have been convinced somehow that their behavior doesn't have anything to do with what they deserve from men. 93 That's good for your self-esteem or whatever, but none of us agree. Your behavior is very important to us. 98 No one who sees you act like this is going to go, "Oh, perfect, there's my future wife. I can't wait to sign my finances over to this." 111 "I want to date the girl who just said that all men are bad, because I'm sure that attitude is going to skip right over me because I'm an idiot." 118 So yeah, there are good straight men. I might have even been one at one point, kind of. 122 But even now, I'm not lining up to be talked to like a child. 128 Let me know in the comments. Like, just let me know—do they exist? Is that real? Are there any good men, or do I need to just force myself to be a lesbian at this point? I'm just wondering. 138 Oh, you should do that and then come back and let us know if you found any good women, or if it was you and you have to work on yourself. 144 If you want a good one, then you have to be a good one. That means giving us the stuff that we want, which includes your habits, choices, and beliefs and so on. 157 So, you've got your work cut out for you. 160 Oh, and watch out for this—bird hands are nature's way of saying don't spend money on me. 168 Don't forget to go to itishomemath.com. 171 I'm finally making clips of all my stuff and translating them, so tell your friends who don't speak English somehow.

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