Crazy

Caring, Concerned or Crazy?

hoe_math breaks down why some women do things guys call “crazy”—like blowing up your phone or making accusations. He says it’s not about being nuts, it’s about caring and being territorial. When she gets upset or acts out, it usually means she’s emotionally invested and actually cares about what you’re doing. It’s not irrational—it’s a sign she’s into you.
0|6|Suspicious|Repeated Calls and Frustration|The episode opens with someone expressing frustration about having called another person five times without a response, setting the stage for a "crazy" emotional reactions.
6|19|Projection|Projection and Emotional Reactions|"hoe_math introduces the concept of projection, explaining how people sometimes project their own fears onto others, leading to misunderstandings and possibly a failed relationship."
19|44|Territoriality|Territoriality and Relationship Dynamics|"The discussion shifts to how anger and suspicion in relationships can stem from territorial instincts (unwarranted jealousy), hoe_math suggests that such behaviors often indicate caring and investment rather expressed as irrational fears."
44|63|Connection|Connection and Emotional Investment|"Intense emotional reactions, like anger or jealousy, can be signs of genuine connection and emotional investment, as individuals feel their partner's faithfulness are critical to a relationship they are now invested in."
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1|255|497|B|He calls his mom, but she only sees him talking nicely for a long time and sort of hears a woman on the other end.
2|388|218|R|She is upset, "Who was that!"
3|249|172|R|What is with the 4 alarm fire???
4|707|562|R|"There can only be one queen here!" "But I love you babe!" It is hard to compete with her many imagined threats.
5|757|44|B|Her conscious brain says his explanation makes sense.
6|911|390|A|But her subconscious keeps her wondering if there aren't many threats to the relationship...

0.0 I have called you five times. Five times! 3.0 This is the kind of thing that really pisses me off. So wait— 5.0 Why is he out partying? Why would acting crazy actually be good? 8.0 I draw a lot of angry women because you have to go with what you know. Here’s one: 11.0 Making a false accusation and lashing out—people call this behavior crazy. 13.0 But they don’t understand. I’ve spoken about projection before. 17.0 That’s when you feel something and then you imagine that somebody else did something to cause it, even though they didn’t. 22.0 So he’s happy, but she’s angry that he didn’t answer the phone five times. 25.0 This is the stuff that pisses me off. He knows that she’s imagining him doing something bad. 30.0 Why is that good? Because that means she cares what he’s doing when she’s not around, and she’s imagining bad things that he might have done. 40.0 She wouldn’t spend her energy on that if she didn’t like him. She’s defending him from other women. 46.0 So when women get crazy, they’re actually just being territorial. 51.0 Because if I don’t know what you’re doing, then it could be bad for me. 56.0 You’ve passed my tests and now we are connected, so this is my business. 61.0 Sometimes, this is how they say, 'I like you.' I don’t want to hear you had your—
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